01-30-2009 9:51 AM -- By: Diana(Rafael's)Mom, From: Florida
I just wanted to visit your Lovely Cassandra, And let you know that we are all here thinking about her too! Since I too lost my Lovely son to a car accident. We all share this pain. I hope that you to are finding some peace a little at a time, I sometimes find that I do" Yet I get the terrible moments of not wanting to! I just miss him toooooo much" I do believe that they are both in very much needed Peace, and secure in Gods Tender Loving arms.
GOD BLESS YOU:Diana(Rafael's)Mom
01-28-2009 2:21 PM -- By: , From:
Dear my VM family & Angels,
If you are receiving this mass message it is because you have supported me during the saddest part of my life. I am sorry we all had to meet here, this way, but I feel that if there is anything we can do to honor our Angels we must do it.
For me, honoring my Angel has begun with the fight to raise awareness of OxyContin abuse…
In February 2005 Citizen Petition 2005P-0076 was filed with the FDA by Barbara and Kirk Van Rooyan on behalf of all those who have died or become addicted to OxyContin.
I have put a page on James’ VM with a link to this petition.
I humbly request you to sign this petition and recall OxyContin so it can be made safer and better regulated. It is totally free and will not take you more than 5 seconds, after you do so, you will receive one email confirmation –no spam.
Eternal Gratitude, Julie Heuton
01-26-2009 8:10 PM -- By: , From:
Dear Debi and Angel Cassandra, I was thinking of you both and wanted to come visit. Cassandra, please wrap your angel arms around your mom. She needs to feel your love surrounding her, she's in so much pain. Whisper in her ear that you love her, and make sure she hears. Debi, you are always in my heart and prayers. I'm here for you if you need to talk. Love always, Nancy and angel Matthew
01-26-2009 9:53 AM -- By: Carol, From: Newnan, GA
"The memory of our Angels is with us each & everyday. The love we feel within our hearts will never fade away ((hugs))"
Carol Mom to Matthew Mullis
01-26-2009 8:39 AM -- By: Trudy, From:
Dearest Sweet and Beautiful Cassandra and her sweet and Beautiful Mom!
Thank you so very much for stopping by to visit my Angel Gina and for remembering her 'Anniversary In Heaven' day!
I've got to come up with a way to remember all the birthdays and anniversary's ! The way my memory is - I forget a lot of theings!
One thing I won't ever forget is how wonderful you are to me, Debi! Thank you so much for you forever friendship ! It means so much to me!
Please take care and remember that I love you!
01-25-2009 9:38 AM -- By: Paula, From:
Sweet Angel Cassandra & Sweet Debi. Just wanted to stop in today to give you a big hug. I know your pain all to well, as I too have lost my child......only 23 years old. Cassandra keep your wings open & watch over your sweet Mom
Love and Hugs
01-18-2009 6:04 PM -- By: , From:
01-17-2009 9:10 PM -- By: Bec, From:
What a beautiful memorial for a sweet young woman. I am so sorry for the loss of this preciuos girl. I must say Cassandra's children are so very adorable.
What a tragic way for you to lose your daughter debi. My heart truly goes out to you and Cassandra's children. I have lost loved ones to in my life and what keeps me going is that they are forever by my side and will watch over me. Im sure Cassandra has never left your side the day her beautiful spirit went to be with God. May she forever stay wrapped in the love and care of all the other beautiful angels in heaven.
Rest in Peace Cassandra and always watch over your mum and gorgeous children. They really need your love and protection.
God Bless You xxxx
01-16-2009 11:47 PM -- By: Lori Brewer, From: Texas
OOPS, FORGOT TO LEAVE AARON'S PIC. LOVE YA.
01-16-2009 11:40 PM -- By: Lori Brewer, From: Texas
Debi, I know I haven't been much of a friend here lately and I apologize. Please forgive me. I want to always be there for you. We had 2 funerals to attend during the Holidays and I know you were in need of a friend during the Holidays. Just know that you are always on my mind and in my heart. Get in touch with me and let me know how you are doing. E-mail me.
Cassandra, it's late so sweet dreams precious Angel. Wrap your arms around your Mom and give Aaron a hug for me.
Love and a whole lot of hugs,
01-15-2009 2:34 AM -- By: Chuck, From: Hawaii
Cassandra and Debi watch over us tomorrow as we face Colton's one year mark. What I would do, or what we would do for just one more moment with our loved ones.
01-14-2009 2:00 PM -- By: vonnie, From:
It doesn't matter how many times I visit here, I leave with tears in my eye's. I want you to know Debi, that you and your beautiful Cassandra are always in my thoughts and prayers.
01-13-2009 10:16 PM -- By: , From:
Just coming back to check on your mom. I know she is having such a hard time, it's hard to lose you child your friend your life. You and david have alot in common watch over your babies and help us help them. Keep on giving us the signs that let us know you are with us. They do help.
GOOD NIGHT CASSANDRA. SWEET DREAMZZZ ANGEL. XOXOXOXOXOXO
01-12-2009 5:04 PM -- By: Lori Brewer, From: Texas
Debi, You have been in my thoughts every day and I am so sorry I haven't gotten in touch. I've had a lot going on here. We had 2 funerals to attend over the Holidays. And both of them were at the same funeral home as Aaron was. So, my mind hasn't been there for anyone either. Or should I say, my heart because you are always on my mind. I'm glad the Holidays are over. I love and miss you and like I said, you are always in my thoughts.
Sweet Cassandra, send your Mom lots of hugs and kisses from Heaven. She really needs them. And please give Aaron a hug from his Mom.
Love and many hugs,
01-09-2009 11:02 PM -- By: Kris, From: Phoenix, AZ
Debi, I am so sorry for your loss. I know that your angel Cassandra is looking down on you and hugging and kissing her babies and you each night. May you find peace and comfort in beautiful memories.......Kris
01-08-2009 10:08 AM -- By: Diane Lewis, From: Waterloo, IL
Wanted to wish you both a happy new year. I wasn't looking forward to the new year once again without my Danielle. I'm sure you feel the same way.
Hope things are going a little easier for you.
Diane Lewis (Danielle Craft's mom) on vm.
01-07-2009 3:39 PM -- By: Marv, From: Upstate, NY
I stopped to see your beautiful memorial web site. I received a request from your mom to stop by to let you know you haven't been, nor wil you ever, be forgotten. I just finished adding a monument in your memory in what is called the Cyber Cemetery that is a part of website run by a group known as Grieving Parents.
I am so sorry that you had to leave at such a young age. As I have hear so many times before, it just isn't right to have a child pass on before the parents. We lost our son, Micha, back in 1999. It's hard to believe it's been nearly 10 years ago already.
01-06-2009 7:54 PM -- By: Lori Brewer, From: Texas
Debi and Cassandra, I am so sorry that I haven't been around lately either. Jake's Aunt passed away on Christmas Eve and on January 2nd his childhood friend that he was very close to even now, shot and killed himself. So, we have been dealing with visitations and funerals for the past couple weeks. But, please, don't think for one minute that I have forgotten you or Cassandra. You both are ALWAYS in my thoughts. Each and every single day. I will e-mail you when we get through these tough times we are going through at the moment. During the Holidays, you were definitely on my mind because I know exactly how you felt. I just wish I could have been there for you more than I was.
Love and so many hugs to you, Cassandra, Katlelyn and Cassidie,
01-06-2009 8:06 AM -- By: Lloyd sr, From: nh
ps. i have on clue who that woman is on my post buy i will pray for her amd her love ones Lloyd sr
01-06-2009 8:00 AM -- By: Lloyd sr, From: NH
Dear Debi,today is tuesday the 6th of Dec i have to go in the hospatil for a procedure on my esophagus today i am a little nervice . i think of you &your sweet Angel all the time i hope that you are doing better.please be strong next month will be 3 yrs that my boy left for HEAVEN i miss him more&more as time passes. but i keep on truckin i have no outher choice i pray to god all the time he is my backbone and my hope for peace.and remember we will all be togather one day in HEAVEN with our ANGELS GOD bless you remember you are needed on earth right now if you need to talk to someone im hear for you email@example.com or 1-603-686-4136 BE STRONG GOD loves you xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoLloyd sr
01-06-2009 12:15 AM -- By: Nancy, From: Illinois
Dear Debi, and sweet angel Cassandra, I just want you to know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers. I know times are hard right now, but you are doing so much better than you are giving yourself credit for. I thank God for bringing you into my life. Cassie, please send your mom a sign, let her know that you are right here with her, and that you so very proud of her and thankful to her for raising your sweet babies and keeping you alive in their memories . Love Always, Nancy
01-05-2009 11:16 AM -- By: Sharone, Chloe-McKayla' Grandma, From: New York
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter, words cannot describe the pain I feel for you as a mother. I can tell by Cassandra's beautiful smile and sparkle in her eyes that she loved life, I hope she enjoyed each moment she had. I am sorry that her beautiful children lost their mother, but I know she is in heaven helping God with all of the Angel Babies who need a "Special Angel Auntie" in heaven. I pray that she has met my beautiful granddaughter Chloe-McKayla who was born an Angel on Nov. 9, 2008. God Bless you and Cassandra's beautiful children.
01-05-2009 12:29 AM -- By: Daisy, From: NYC
You have create A really nice Memorial for your Daughter .May her Memorys live in your heart for ever and always bring you peace.
01-04-2009 10:37 PM -- By: Chuck, From: Hawaii
Cassandra hello! Sending hugs to heaven for you. Debi, these days have been so rough. And now we are 11 days away till Colton's one year anniversary of his death. This past year was such a blur. I don't know how to even make it through the next one but I guess just one step at a time is the probably the best way. Wishing you peace and comfort through 2009.
01-04-2009 6:26 PM -- By: , From:
That was a tough couple of months..
I just wanted to stop by wish you a peaceful, healthy New Year. You and Cassandra are in my daily thoughts.
01-04-2009 7:49 AM -- By: Trudy, From:
Dearest Debi !
I just looked at your "Christmas Angel' page and it is absolutely beautiful ! The way you made a different Christmas picture for each Angel is unbelievably beautiful ! It must have taken you so much time ! But I know how much happiness it brought to each of us who have lost our Precious Daughter, Son, Brother, Sister, Mom, Dad, Friend, or other relative. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR INCLUDING MY DAUGHTER:GINA ON YOUR CHRISTMAS ANGEL PAGE !
I have been having Dreams about Gina almost every single night this past two weeks! In each of them I'm trying to save her. In most of them she is real young. I don't know why I am having so many but I wake up so sad that she isn't here with me ! It's like losing her all over again ! Some of them are so real that for a split second I wake up thinking I had saved her from one thing or another !
I pray that Gina will grab hold of Cassandra's hand and tell her just how much you need to feel her beside you !
I know - like you wrote in Gina's Guest Book- that it feels as though your Whole World is falling apart and I pray with all my heart that Cassandra can bring comfort to you somehow- some way!
Please...Always know that there are so many of us that love you, okay Debi !
Much Love Always and forever !
01-04-2009 7:29 AM -- By: Trudy Dumas, From:
Dearest Beautiful Cassandra and My Sweet Friend Debi !
I'm sorry I haven't visited you for awhile ! I have been thinking about you a lot though and I want you to always remember that, okay!? I hope and Pray that this new year will be a better year for you and that you can find comfort in knowing how much you are loved. Not only by so many of us here at VM, but also by your sweet daughter- Cassandra ! You are such a wonderful Mom ! And my Forever Friend !
Much Love to you Always!
01-01-2009 3:13 AM -- By: Drema Pearson, From: in amandas heart forever
HAPPY NEW YEAR CASSANDRA & DEBI,i wanted to come by to let you know i am thinking of this this wonderful nite and wishing only the best for 2009 for all of us that has lost a loved one.may the pain get a tad easier,may we get to smile a litttle more,may the tears turn to laughter, i will visit you again soon (((hugs)) drema & angel amanda faith
12-31-2008 4:07 PM -- By: Lloyd sr, From: NH
Dear Debi, how are you? have not heard from you lateley.Im still prayering for you&your Angel.try to have a good new year GOD BLESS YOU Lloyd sr xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox