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Memorial created 10-8-2008 by
Debi Baker
Cassandra Leigh Baker
April 8 1985 - August 10 2008

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12-14-2008 5:29 PM -- By: Grandma Drake,  From: Honeoye, NY  

Hi Cassandra,

You have been on my mind all day so thought I would visit with you for a few minutes.  It is raining here today but that sure beats snow.  I'm going to Bloomfield tomorrow to Nancy's store....you never got to see that part of her shop.  Most things are $1 but there is stuff that is a little more.  I think she has been opened on that part for close to 5 years now.  She still cuts hair and has the tanning salon so she keeps busy.  Right now she is in CA to see her oldest daughter and will be back Thursday.  She still cuts my hair and will need to have that done when she gets back.

Had 3 of Aunt Bonnie's kids here and four of Uncle Doug's so it was quite hectic to put it mildly.  Everyone has gone home now so it is quiet here.

I know that you are watching over us and especially your Mom and Cassie and Katie.  I wish that I could go to Crestview to see your Mom and the girls but can't go at this time.  Mom and I talk everyday and we always talk about you as well as other things.  I also get to talk to the girls and Cassie is always telling me she has peed.  Too funny.

Well sweetheart, remember that you will always be remembered in many, many ways and we know that you are our own special angel watching over us.

I love you and miss you.  Sending hugs and kisses to you.


12-14-2008 5:08 PM -- By: Trudy,  From:  

Dearest Sweet Angel Cassandra and beautiful Mom Debi ~

  Your messages always make me feel better. thank you so much for stopping by to visit !  I feel so bad about the anxiety and sorrow you feel about opening Cassandra's death certificate.  I remember how painful it was to read Gina's.  In my case, we didn't know what had happened to her from January 23rd 2006 until March 10th 2006.  I mean, I knew what had happened because of the dream I had two days after she left us.  But I was really wondering if maybe I had been wrong believing 100% in what she told me in that dream. It was a long time before the Detectives took it out of being in Homicide.  On March 10th it was the man from the Funeral home who called me and told me that her Death Certificate and autopsy reports were in and that I needed to pick them up at the Coroners office.  That was such a difficult thing to do !

   The Dream was 100% accurate.  I wanted (WANT), so much to believe in Life After Death and when I read what they had found to be her cause of death, I really thought Gina had reached out to me and told me what had happened and that she didn't mean to take too much of her Dad's medicine ! She just wanted to be able to go to sleep ! Her insomnia was just like mine is ! I have it so, so bad !  And once I wake up, even for just a second...I can't fall back to sleep ! It's awful !

   Debi, I hope you are okay after reading the Certificate !   And/or if you haven't yet read it...just KNOW that I am always and forever here for you, okay!?  I am so very sorry Debi !

  Please Sweet Angels Cassandra and Gina...Please bring hugs and comfort to Debi and let her know how much you Love her !  Sprinkle your sparkly Angel Dust all around her feet so that she can feel you right next to her ALWAYS!

Take Care Debi !

Much Love,

Trudy


12-14-2008 5:08 PM -- By: Trudy,  From:  

Dearest Sweet Angel Cassandra and beautiful Mom Debi ~

  Your messages always make me feel better. thank you so much for stopping by to visit !  I feel so bad about the anxiety and sorrow you feel about opening Cassandra's death certificate.  I remember how painful it was to read Gina's.  In my case, we didn't know what had happened to her from January 23rd 2006 until March 10th 2006.  I mean, I knew what had happened because of the dream I had two days after she left us.  But I was really wondering if maybe I had been wrong believing 100% in what she told me in that dream. It was a long time before the Detectives took it out of being in Homicide.  On March 10th it was the man from the Funeral home who called me and told me that her Death Certificate and autopsy reports were in and that I needed to pick them up at the Coroners office.  That was such a difficult thing to do !

   The Dream was 100% accurate.  I wanted (WANT), so much to believe in Life After Death and when I read what they had found to be her cause of death, I really thought Gina had reached out to me and told me what had happened and that she didn't mean to take too much of her Dad's medicine ! She just wanted to be able to go to sleep ! Her insomnia was just like mine is ! I have it so, so bad !  And once I wake up, even for just a second...I can't fall back to sleep ! It's awful !

   Debi, I hope you are okay after reading the Certificate !   And/or if you haven't yet read it...just KNOW that I am always and forever here for you, okay!?  I am so very sorry Debi !

  Please Sweet Angels Cassandra and Gina...Please bring hugs and comfort to Debi and let her know how much you Love her !  Sprinkle your sparkly Angel Dust all around her feet so that she can feel you right next to her ALWAYS!

Take Care Debi !

Much Love,

Trudy


12-14-2008 4:03 PM -- By: YOUR LOVING MOM,  From: inside your heart  

MY DARLING CASSANDRA~~PLEASE KNOW THAT I THINK OF YOU EVERY SINGLE SECOND OF EVERY SINGLE DAY EVEN IF I'M NOT HERE.  I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH.  PLEASE SEND MOM SOME LOVE AS I AM HURTING SO BAD....I DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH MORE I CAN ENDURE.

FOREVER I WILL LOVE AND MISS YOU


12-14-2008 1:25 PM -- By: Kim,  From: TX  

Debi and Cassandra,

Just came by to check on Cassandra this morning.

My thoughts and prayers are with you!!

It is so hard all the time but this time of year is even worse.


12-14-2008 8:56 AM -- By: mom,  From: inside your heart  

Good morning my beautiful Angel~~I love you so very much.  Please keep a watch over us as someone tries to break my heart again.  The girls are doing really good.  We love and miss you so very much.

 


12-14-2008 7:24 AM -- By: Rita,  From: michigan  

Good Morning Debi,  Just wanted to stop by first thing this morning and ask you for your email address.  Here is mine if you would rather send it to me in an email.  your_elusive_butterfly_me @yahoo.com.  Hope you have a nice day.  Love n' Hugs, Rita


12-14-2008 3:20 AM -- By: paula,  From: rock hill sc  

Cassandra im sorry i dont write you like i should. i added you to my sister kristens memorial angle page. im glad your mom let me. i know i dont know your mom well but what i do know of her is a sweet woman. visit her and tell her know you are with her. tell kristen i love and miss her.

good night cassandra

love always

paula


12-13-2008 11:37 PM -- By: Rita,  From: michigan  

My Dear Friend Debi & Beautiful Angel Cassandra,  Debi, I do know what you mean by the mask that you wear.  I wore it for a long time.  Debi, please give yourself some time.  We never accept what has happened we just learn how to live in a different way then what we use too.  It has been over 5 years since Laura left us and still I have days that still rip at my heart but I've learned for me what helped me through it was to talk about Laura whenever I could, even if it meant I had to talk to her when I was alone at times.  It didn't matter if people didnt want to listen I talked anyways.  I know how hard it is to stay strong but my dear friend please ask God to help you through this trying time.  You do not walk alone.  Do you remember the poem "Footprints In The Sand"?  Read it over and over again.  Remember your beautiful daughter may not be there for you to wrap your arms around you but she is there wrapping her wings around you.  She is there when you cry, she is there when you question, she is with you always.  She lives on through you.  Oh how I wish I lived close to you so I could sit with you and let you cry, vent, talk, yell whatever it would take.  My dear friend, my prayers for you continue each and every day that our Heavenly Father will bring you the comfort that you need.  I am here for you my dear friend if you need to talk.  God bless you my dearest friend.  Love n' Hugs, Always Rita


12-13-2008 9:08 PM -- By: Kevin Reynolds,  From:  

Dear Angel Cassandra,

I just had to come and visit you today and let you know that you are in my heart always! I am asking you to please give my son a big hug and kiss for me and let him know that his daddy really misses him so much. Tell Crystal that I miss and love her too. I feel so guilty becomes some days seem a little easier then others, however the faqct is the same we miss our angels so much that the ain will always be with us. We are so thankful that our angels has brought us together in our time of need. I don't know what I would do without my friends and family on VM. Your mom is such a caring special woman who needs her daughter to give her the strength to get through the hoildays if for no other reason for your twin girls. Wrap your sweet angel wings around your mom and let her feel your love.

Love you angel,

Kevin


12-13-2008 4:46 PM -- By: Courtney,  From: your heart  

I love you Cassandra and I miss you very much. I still wish I could change that night, I shouldn't have gotten mad at you I should have never given you the keys back either. Please stay with mom and help her out as much as possible. I know she is going to see this and think I got all soft hearted lol. The twins are doing good they are getting big and are starting to look a lot more like you. Cassie is potty trained all except for night time. We are still working with Destiny and Katie. Elizabeth is mean as ever I think she has the Baker attitude and your persistance lol. I am fixing to be going to boot camp in Jan. for the military and then I am going to the police academy and become a police officer, then while I am doing that I am going to be going to college to get my bachlors degree in criminal justice/ forensics so I can become a CSI. I know me doing law enforcement lol. Well I will stop by again. I love you and miss you very much. Hugs and kisses Destiny, Elizabeth, and Courtney.


12-13-2008 3:29 PM -- By: ,  From:  

Thank you for adding James to your Angel Christmas page, it's great. I hope you don't mind if I make a page based around what you've already done


12-13-2008 3:15 PM -- By: ,  From:  

Dear Debi ,

Your page is looking great. You remind me of myself, constantly adding things to the website. This is my grief work, my therapy. I love the butterflies

I feel a deep connection to you as our dates are so close. This has been the most intense 4 months of my life. I find myself going from depression, to anger, to despair, and then back again.

I have sought out God and prayer -something I never saw myself doing before- for comfort. I found this prayer today, I hope you like it.

Julie

I take a quiet moment as I begin the day,

A moment to reflect, remember, and pray

That Jesus and my loved one are holding hands together

And one day I'll be with them

Where love lives on forever.

PS Give those twins a big hug and kiss from me today

 


12-13-2008 1:15 PM -- By: Andrea*Ryans Momma,  From: Ohio  

HELLO ANGEL CASSANDRA... JUST STOPPING IN TODAY TO BRING YOU A GREAT BIG HUG AND LOTS OF KISSES. I KNOW YOU HAVE MET MY RYAN AND BECOME GREAT FRIENDS WITH HIM. WILL YOU PLEASE GIVE HIM HUGS FOR ME AND TELL HIM THAT I MISS HIM AND I LOVE HIM SO SO MUCH. STAY CLOSE TO YOUR MOM AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN AND LET THEM FEEL YOU WITH THEM. HAVE A BEAUTIFUL DAY ANGEL.

 XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO


12-13-2008 7:17 AM -- By: Trudy A. Dumas,  From:  

Good Morning Angel Cassandra and Sweet Debi !

  Just a few minutes ago, it wouldn't let me write in this space.  It was so weird. But now it's fine !  So how are you doing today Angel Cassie and Debi?  I guess that's a stupid question !  I had a really bad dream about my Gina last night ! It woke me up at 11:15 PM and I couldn't go back to sleep !  In the dream, she was alive, but running from this horrible man that was chasing her and trying to hurt her !  I knew he was because he had just attacked me (in the nightmare), just a few minutes before going after Gina !  But I had fought him off by stabbing him.  So I couldn't figure out how he could possibly be chasing Gina ! I thought I had killed him !  I was staying in this Motel room with my 3 girls and he knew where our room was, but I heard Gina screaming so I ran to help her !  I was able to get her inside the Motel room but he was right behind her ! That's when I woke up !  I woke up - out of breath, like I was running !  For a split second I thought My Gina was all safe and sound ! Then reality stepped in ! Damn! It's just not fair, huh Debi !

  I am always here for you, okay Sweetie !  You are NOT ALONE !

Much Love Always!

Trudy


12-13-2008 1:05 AM -- By: Lori Brewer,  From: Texas  

Debi and Cassandra, I just wanted to stop by and say Goodnight to you both before I go to bed. You both are in my heart always. Love and many many hugs to you both. And the twins too. Sweet Dreams....

Lori~Aaron's Mom~

 


12-13-2008 1:01 AM -- By: Darla,  From: Thinking of you  

Dearest Debi and Beautiful Angel Cassandra~~ We wanted to come and thank you so very much for visiting with us. Your messages have forever touched my heart. Thank you for visiting with my Brother Ronnie on his Birthday ~~ You have created one of the most beautiful Tributes to your beautiful daughter Angel Cassandra~~ What a very beautiful Angel she is. I can only imagine how she is smiling that beautiful smile of hers down on you from Heaven. Beautiful Angel Cassandra please wrap your beautiful Angel Wings around your beautiful mother and family and send them lots of Heavenly hugs and please send your mother lots of signs~~ Thank you so much for your friendship on this long journey of grief~~It helps to know we are not alone. I want you to know we are here for you my dear sweet friend. I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Thank you with all my heart for visiting with us and for all of your love and support and comfort you have given us. God bless you and your family.Sending you lots of love and hugs from my heart to yours~~ Love your friend......Darla

 


12-12-2008 11:49 PM -- By: Chuck,  From: Hawaii  

Hello Cassandra. Wrap your arms tightly around your family. They miss you. Debi, thank you so much for keeping me in your thoughts. You guys provide me with strength often when I need it, and lord knows I need it now. Yes, it is even harder with christmas and Colton's angel day around the corner. Love you all.


12-12-2008 11:25 PM -- By: Priscilla ,  From:  

debi,thinking of u sweete and your angel,i love u ,if u need me im here ok..love u lots cilla


12-12-2008 3:18 PM -- By: IMELDA SALINAS,  From: EDINBURG TX.  

Hi! Debbie

Thank You! for stopping by, I bet you are having a rough time like me. I went to a memorial on 12/9/2008 for all that passed away on 2008. It turned out nice; They had some candles so we could lid up in their memory and gave us other gifts. I've been very depressed and crying these few days because now it has been 4months since Alyssa and Cassandra have been gone. I miss her so much! " I pray alot." But, sometimes I can't deal with the pain. I feel like just getting up and run and run; until I collapse, But I think about my kids.  I have no words to say, only that I feel your pain. Take Care!  I'll keep in touch.


12-12-2008 5:17 AM -- By: renee,  From: nj  

i am so sorry for your tragic loss... god bless you always!  ~mommy 2 skye harrison, daughter of maria romanchick both on vm~

 


12-11-2008 10:13 PM -- By: mom,  From:  

BABY, I AM SO SORRY THAT I CAN'T BE STRONGER.  I TRIED SO HARD TO BE STRONG, BUT IT JUST ISN'T WORKING.  I WANT TO SEE YOU, I WANT TO HOLD YOU.  I WANT TO GO BACK TO AUGUST 9TH AND STOP TIME.  I HAVE NEVER HURT SO MUCH. I NEED YOU SOOO MUCH HONEY.  SO MANY PEOPLE HAVE JUST FORGOTTEN ALL ABOUT US, BUT I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU.....YOU ARE MY FIRST BORN DAUGHTER AND I WANT TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH YOU.  I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH CASSANDRA AND I NEED YOU

YOUR MOM WHO MISSES YOU SO VERY MUCH

12-11-2008 4:37 PM -- By: Janet F,  From: Michigan  

Dear Debi and Angel Cassandra, Just needed to stop by and see how you are doing Debi. Our daughter's recieved their Angel Wings so close to each other. I know another month has just passed for you and the Holidays are upon us.  I pray that your Angel Cassandra and my Angel Jill send us their love and give us some comfort.  May God protect you.  There's not much I can say, except that I understand how you feel.  Thinking of you.  Much Love, Janet 


12-11-2008 1:34 AM -- By: Andrea*Ryans Momma,  From:  

GOOD NIGHT ANGEL.... SWEET DREAMZZZ.

XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO


12-10-2008 8:10 PM -- By: Kevin Reynolds,  From:  

Sweet Angel Cassandra,

Please wrap your arms around your mom today for she is really having a bad day for today has been 4 months since you went to heaven I understan that pain as my 4 months is also right around the corner. I wish I could take your mom's pain away as I wish I could take everyone's pain away for I knw how hard it is to deal and cope. Every 10th of the month is going to be hard well at least for awhile so I have been told. So, please just wrap your warm angel wings around your mom and help her get through this day! Love you always

Kevin

Debi, I know today is hard as we are going to have hard times that will always be such as birthdays, holidays and etc. You have so many people that care about you stay strong Debi! You are never alone VM is always here to help you get through these horrible days I know!


12-10-2008 7:00 PM -- By: Karen Pelletier,  From:  

Dear Debi,

I wanted to come by tonight to let you know I am thinking of you and your beautiful daughter Cassandra. Thank you for the beautiful messages on Kristy's memorial always.

I also wanted to let you know that I will be lighting a candle for your beautiful daughter Cassandra on Sunday, the 14th of December. This day is the "International Candle Lighting Ceremony" for all children who died to honor and remember them. You see, I have been going to a support group called "The Compassionate Friends" since October of last year. We meet once a month to talk about our feelings and our children who have died. This Sunday, I will be lighting a remembrance candle for Kristy and all of our precious children her on VM. If you would like to learn more about this beautiful candle lighting, you can look it up on the internet under "The Compassionate Friends"

I am sending you so many hugs tonight dear Debi. You are always in my heart and prayers.

With love, Kristy's mom, Karen


12-10-2008 3:26 PM -- By: Lori Brewer,  From: Texas  

Debi...I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts today. I know it is hard and I just want you to know that you are not alone.

Cassandra...Please send your Mom some hugs from Heaven. She really needs them right now.

Love and so many hugs,
Lori~Aaron's Mom~

 

 


12-10-2008 10:04 AM -- By: Candace,  From: Louisiana  

Debi,

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Cassandra.. Her site is beautiful (It touched my heart as I sit here crying my eyes out because I understand and know your pain).. I once read there is no pain like the pain of losing a child.. I think there is (It's the pain of living without your child) My son was killed last month in a car accident as well.. I will never understand why my son was in this persons car (my son was a passenger in the backseat) My thoughts and prayers are with you .......(((((hugs)))))) I will continue to visit Cassandra's page...

Candace  (Mom to Landon, a brand new Angel)


12-10-2008 8:00 AM -- By: mom,  From:  

WELL BABY, TODAY IT HAS BEEN 4 MONTHS SINCE I SAW YOUR BEAUTIFUL FACE.  YOU WOULD THINK THAT IT BEING THIS LONG I WOULD START TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GONE....BUT I CAN'T.  I DON'T WANT YOU GONE...WHO WILL I SHARE ALL THE TRIUMPHS THAT "OUR" GIRLS DO?  YOU WERE ALWAYS THE ONE TO GIVE ME A HUG WHENEVER I NEEDED ONE, AND BABY, I SURE DO NEED ONE NOW.  I AM STILL SO ANGRY THAT YOU WERE TAKEN AWAY FROM ME.  I STILL DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY YOU WERE TAKEN FROM US, YOU WERE DOING SO GOOD.  THE DAY IS AS DARK AND AS GLOOMY AS I FEEL TODAY.  PLEASE REACH DOWN WITH YOUR STRENGTH AND HELP TO HOLD ME UP.  I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH CASSANDRA AND I MISS YOU JUST AS MUCH.


12-09-2008 5:23 PM -- By: Priscilla ,  From:  

debi,thank u sweetie for stopping by,,i love u and your daughter soo much,,cilla


 

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