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From one Angel Mom to another... May you always find comfort in your memories of Cassandra.

Memorial created 10-8-2008 by
Debi Baker
Cassandra Leigh Baker
April 8 1985 - August 10 2008

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12-09-2008 4:55 PM -- By: Jason's Mom- Donita,  From:  

Last message was from me -


12-09-2008 4:54 PM -- By: ,  From:  

Debi and Angel Cassandra-

Just wanted to let you both know I was thinking of you. (((((HUGS))))) - Donita


12-09-2008 3:34 PM -- By: ,  From:  

Debi,

I am sorry I have not came to visit.I am going through a really rough time right now and have withdrawn some from everyone.Thanks for stopping by and may God give you strength to get through each and every day.....Rose


12-09-2008 1:30 PM -- By: Rita,  From: michigan  

Dear Debi & Angel Cassandra,  I wanted to stop by to say hello and visit with you both for a while.  Debi, I know all too well how hard this holiday season is and will be for you.  It never really gets any easier we just learn as we go that instead of holding on to the sadness of our loss we hold on tight to the beautiful memories we have our our special angels.  Our holidays regardless which one we speak of will never ever be the same.  But in time sweetie you will softly smile at all the beautiful memories you have of Cassandra and those moments will help you through each special day.  Your pain in grief is so very new to you and the wound is so open right now.  It will take time to get to the point of accepting this tragedy.  I wish so much sweetie I could send you words of strength, courage and comfort.  Just know please that I am here if ever you need someone to talk with, listen to you talk, a shoulder to cry upon or if you just need that big hug of support.  Together as a family we will help each other through the toughest of time.  I send you all of my support and pray that our Heavenly Father will send you comfort and peace of heart to help you through the holidays ahead.  Sending lots of Love n' Hugs, Rita


12-09-2008 11:36 AM -- By: YOUR LOVING MOM,  From: a life of hell  

MYDARLING CASSANDRA~~OH BABY, I WISH YOU COULD REACH DOWN AND WRAP YOUR ARMS AROUND ME.  I NEED YOU SO VERY MUCH.  TOMORROW IS 4 MONTHS THAT YOU HAVE BEEN GONE AND YET IT FEELS LIKE 4 CENTURIES SINCE I'VE SEEN YOUR BEAUTIFUL FACE.  I HURT SO MUCH HONEY.  HOW AM I SUPPOSE TO GO ON WITHOUT YOU TO SHARE THINGS WITH.  I KEEP PICKING UP THE PHONE TO TELL YOU THINGS THAT ARE HAPPENING.  CASSANDRA, I KNOW THAT I HAVE MADE MY FAIR SHARE OF MISTAKES AS A MOM, BUT I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED YOU AND I DON'T THINK THAT I SHOULD BE PUNISHED FOR MY MISTAKES BY YOU BE TAKEN AWAY FROM US.  YOU NEED TO BE HERE.  I HAVE HAD ALOT OF HEARTACHE IN MY LIFE BUT NOTHING IS AS HEARTBREAKING AS HAVING TO FACE THE FACT THAT I WILL NEVER SEE YOU AGAIN.  I CAN'T DEAL WITH THAT.  PLEASE COME TO ME SOMEHOW AND HELP ME TO DEAL WITH ALL OF THIS.  I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU MORE THAN ANYONE REALIZES.

LOVE FOREVER AND EVER~~~MOM


12-09-2008 12:30 AM -- By: Imelda,  From: Edinburg Tx  

Debi, I am very sorry, About your daughter. I know how you feel sometimes you can not believe the things we hear and Why? we have to go through so much pain. Thank You! for signing Alyssa guest book.


12-09-2008 12:13 AM -- By: Rita,  From: michigan  

Good night sweet Angel Cassandra, sleep peacefully with the angels and watch over your family and send your momma your love.  God bless you and  your family, Always, Love n' Hugs, Rita


12-08-2008 11:10 PM -- By: Kevin Reynolds,  From:  

Angel Cassandra,

I want to op and say goodnight to you and let you know that I am so thankful you sent your mom to me. I love you guys! I'll be back tomorrow to visit you sweetie!

Wrap your wings around your mom tonight and give her a hug and kiss give her one for me too.

Love you,

Kevin


12-08-2008 7:46 PM -- By: Kim,  From: Fort Worth  

Debi and Cassandra,

Thank you for stopping by Brents page today.

It means so much. Cassandra is so lovely she should be here with you and her children! I am so sorry!!

God knows I wish I had the words that could help but the truth is words won't help.

Love and Prayers, Kim

bbksellman@sbcglobal.net< /p>

12-08-2008 2:33 PM -- By: Lloyd sr,  From: NH  

I would love to have little Lloyd on Cassandras  angel page.it pleases me to have someone like yourself to relate with god bless our ANGELS. L.C sr


12-08-2008 1:11 PM -- By: Terrie Whiteman,  From: Pa  

Hi pretty girl, I thought I would stop and say hello, I'm really trying to go to all the angels and wish them a Merry Christmas. I know it's different in heaven, no tears, no fears, just love and all that goes with it. Please tell Joey I said thank you again for these little posts that I am finding now, hope you wrote some, so your Mom can find them too.

Love, Terrie (Joey's Mom)

 

 


12-08-2008 11:45 AM -- By: LLoyd Chapin sr,  From: Exeter NH  

my heart bleeds for your loss and i feel your pain every day my son my world.Lloyd jr & Cassandra are doing great in the lords arms.god bless you all keep the faith.Lloyd sr


12-08-2008 9:42 AM -- By: Diana,  From: Florida  

Thank you for the visit.   I know how you are feeling too"  All I keep saying to myself is that our babies are in peace!  And your beautiful daughter is also with my handsome son!  May God keep giving us the strengh to go on.  And as for the Holiday's yes it's very hard,   So I just say to myself that Rafael is too busy right now"  I know I will see him again someday". 

God Bless You: Diana(Rafael's)Mom


12-08-2008 12:44 AM -- By: Andrea*Ryans Momma,  From: Ohio  

DEAR DEBI AND ANGEL CASSANDRA..... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR VISITING WITH MY SON RYAN AND I.  I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. YOUR ANGEL IS BEAUTIFUL AND I THANK YOU FOR SHARING HER WITH US.  I AM SENDING YOU LOTS OF LOVE, HUGS AND KISSES. I WILL BE BACK SOON TO READ MORE ABOUT CASSANDRA.

XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO


12-07-2008 4:52 PM -- By: Alicia Stansell,  From: Texas  

Thinking of you both with love and prayers.

Alicia


12-07-2008 1:34 PM -- By: Trudy Dumas ,  From:  

Dearest Angel Cassandra and Sweet Debi !

   I can't tell you how sad I got while reading what you went through having to wait the weekend - hoping your Beautful Cassandra would come home !  I can't even imagine what torment that was !  I am so very sorry ! It actually was on my mind so much that I couldn't even sleep!  I am truly heart broken for you !  My oldest daughter-Christina, was also born in 1985.  Gina was born in 1986.  When Chrissy was in Kindergarten I was theSpecialized Programs Teachers Assistant, so she was in my class all through Kindergarten ! so were my 2 other daughters ! What School did Cassandra go to for Kindergarten?

  Her story broke my Heart !  My Gina also had a real problem with Meth ! That was the beginning of the end.  Just like your Angel, she was clean from it for awhile before she left this Earth !  But then she started having a problem with alcohol ! She was so sad !  She just couldn't stop abusing things!

   I would love for you to add Gina to Cassandra's Memorial.  I will do the same if that's okay !  Life is so very difficult without our Angels here ! I wish there was something I could say or do to bring comfort to you !  It's just not fair, is it !?

  Your Cassandra is so beautiful !  If you're like me....it's hard to even look at pictures ! they bring back so many memories !  I really have a hard time when I look at Gina's baby pictures !  Idon't understand why this had to happen !  A parent should NEVER have to bury their child.  Gosh Debi !  I wish more than anything that we had our little girls back with us ! There's nothing I want more !  This January 23rd, it will be 3 years for me and it hasn't got any easier !   My Grand Daughter: Alexia, who will be 6 this month, was crying so hard about her Auntie Gina ! She was only 3 when Gina left us, but yet she remembers everything they did together !  She was crying and then I started and we just couldn't seem to stop !   It's especially hard with Christmas coming up ! Plus Gina just had her 22nd Birthday on November 22nd.  If you ever need to talk to me, you can always get in touch with me, okay ! My email is: RigbyGirl75@aol.com  ! Please know that I am thinking about you and you are in my prayers !

Always,

Trudy


12-07-2008 3:30 AM -- By: Kevin Reynolds,  From:  

Sweet angel Cassandra, please wrap your arms around your mom and daughters and also son. Let them feel your lve, for they love and miss you so much! Your mom is such a sweet, kind woman that has touched my heart forever I love you guys

Kevin Reynolds


12-06-2008 11:11 PM -- By: Yvonne Causwell,  From: Birmingham  

Hi Debi and Angel Cassandra I pray you are doing well. I'm working on a Christmas Angel page and I added your Angel to it. I hope you like it. God Bless

Yvonne and Angel Saudia


12-06-2008 7:03 PM -- By: Karen Pelletier,  From:  

Yes Debi, it would be an honor for you to add Kristy's picture to your Christmas angels page. Thank you so very much Debi. You have touched my heart! I send you my love tonight and always. God bless you!

With love, Kristy's mom, Karen


12-06-2008 12:18 PM -- By: Trudy Dumas,  From:  

Dearest Angel Cassandra and Debi !

    I saw your daughter's picture when I was visiting little Angel Ryan and I just had to write ! 

I am so very sorry for the pain you're going through ! As I was reading the first page about how you feel inside having your beautiful daughter taken away at such a young age...it was my thoughts and feelings exactly !~ I've just never written down the extent of the anger I feel inside !  It's almost as though I'm afraid to be angry - in fear of losing another one of my children !  I lost my 'Middle Button' ~ My Little Gina Marie - when she was just 19 years old.  It is without a doubt the most horrible thing any parent could ever go through !  I am so sorry that you're in so much pain.  I wish I could tell you it gets better with time ! But unfortunately, it doesn't!  This coming January 23rd, will be three years since my Daughter went to Heaven !  I still cry all the time ! 

 Again....I am so very sorry !

Much Love,

Trudy >>>>>The Momma of Angel Gina-Bear ! 


12-06-2008 10:08 AM -- By: Sylvia Tapscott,  From: Grieving Parents  

Debi, I read your poems & can truly identify witi your feelings.  Sending you love & comfort - always in my thoughts & prayers.


12-04-2008 11:31 PM -- By: YOUR LOVING MOM,  From:  

116 DAYS OF JUST EXSISTING WITHOUT YOU HERE WITH ME.  IT HURTS SO MUCH BABY.  I KNOW THAT YOU HAVE NO MORE TEMPTATIONS, BUT I WANT YOU HERE WITH ME SO MUCH.  i LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING. 

YOU ARE FOREVER IN MY HEART AND IN MY THOUGHTS.


12-04-2008 11:09 PM -- By: Kevin Reynolds,  From:  

Coming by to say goodnight to you angel. Love you

Kevin


12-04-2008 9:05 PM -- By: Grandma Drake,  From: Honeoye, NY  

Just thinking of you with love.


12-04-2008 6:13 PM -- By: mom,  From:  

HI MY BEAUTFUL BABY,

I WAS SITTING HERE TONIGHT TRYING TO REFLECT UPON MY LIFE AND WHAT IT MEANS. I STILL HAVEN’T COME UP WITH AN ANSWER. ALL MY LIFE ALL I EVER WANTED TO BE WAS A MOM. BUT BEING A GRIEVING MOM SUCKS. NOT TO SOUND NASTY, BUT YOU WERE SUPPOSE TO BURY ME….YOU WERE SUPPOSE TO TELL PEOPLE ABOUT YOUR MOM, NOT ME TELLING PEOPLE ABOUT YOU. THERE ISN’T ENOUGH TO TELL. 23 YEARS!!!!!!!

YOU SHOULD HAVE HAD AT LEAST 35 MORE YEARS OF MEMORIES TO TALK ABOUT.

CASSANDRA, I THANK YOU EVERYDAY FOR NICOLAS, CASSIDIE AND KATELYN. PLEASE REMEMBER HOW VERY MUCH I LOVE YOU AND I WISH I COULD HAVE DONE SOMETHING TO CHANGE THE OUTCOME OF AUGUST 10TH.

I’VE MET A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO ARE GOING THROUGH THE SAME KIND OF PAIN THAT I AM, AND THEY HAVE HELPED ME A LOT. CHRISTMAS IS COMING VERY QUICKLY AND YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL ABOUT SPENDING THE HOLIDAYS; ESPECIALLY CHRISTMAS, ALONE. I WOULD SPEND EVERY CHRISTMAS ALONE IF I COULD AT LEAST HAVE YOU HERE WITH ME. I DON’T WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITHOUT YOU. I MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH CASSANDRA!!!!!! I AM SOOOOO VERY LONELY WITHOUT YOU. I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!

LOVE FOREVER AND EVER~~YOUR MOM


12-04-2008 2:56 PM -- By: Kevin Reynolds,  From:  

Thinking about you today as I always do. Cassandra please wrap your warm soft angel wings around your mom and daughters today and let them know you  always with them. For the pain of missing our child is one of it's own. That pain is the hardest pain ever! Please know you are always loved and never forgotton for you are missed so much!!

Debi, Hang in there love please know I am always here for you my dear friend. Together we can get through this horrible lonely road of grief. Daor night I am here! Love you

Kevin


12-03-2008 4:30 PM -- By: Grandma Drake,  From: Honeoye, NY  

Hi Cassandra and Debi,

You have done a beautiful job on this sites as well as all the others.  I know that Cassandra sees it and is so very pleased as well.  I love you Cassandra and Debi I love you too and am so proud that you are my daughter.  You are doing an awesome job with Cassie & Katie and they are becoming really special little girls.  Cassandra, give Mom and the girls for me.  Keep an eye on Courtney while she goes through this new phase of her life.  We all want to see her succeed.  Love you and miss you.

Love, Grandma


12-02-2008 11:08 PM -- By: Kevin Reynolds,  From:  

Goodnight sweet angel come give your mom some warm hugs and kisses tonight and give her an extra kiss and hug for me. Love you

Debi, Goodnight my dear sweet friend. Sending you tons of hugs and all my love hang in there Debi Hang in there

I am always here for you remember a click away.

Loe you,

Kevin


12-02-2008 12:34 AM -- By: Diana,  From: Florida  

God Bless you"  She was so beautiful and that smile!  May God grant you some peace.   She is loved always, never will be forgotten,  She is in peace within the warm safe arms of Our Loving God.   Be well and she did leave you her beautiful children to watch over,  and see them grow.  They are part of her forever!

GOD BLESS YOU: Diana(Rafael's)Mom 


12-01-2008 8:33 PM -- By: Kevin Reynolds,  From:  

Dear Debi,

thank you so much for taking the time out to make special pictures for Crystal and Ryan I add the picture of Ryan to his gifts and will do the same for Cryst thank you, I have missed you so much! How are you holding up I know stupid question well yell at me at least then Ill hear from ya (LOL) Love you

Kevin Reynolds


 

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